Megan,
The 7-12 is when they take a part of your hypoglossal nerve (that goes to the tongue) and splice it into your facial nerve - kinda like jumper cables. I will initally lose the movement I have, but my doctor is pretty confident that worst case scenario is that he can get me back to a 3 on the scale, which is better than a 5! They say you usually see results within a year of the nerve jump. But, there again, is the average time - could be less, could be more.
My nerve tested fine at the time of surgery, so who knows why it's not doing what I want it to do now - I guess it's still a little ticked off at being messed with.
So, right now, the plan is to have the 7-12, with both my doctor and me agreeing that I may chicken out at the last minute. I don't think I will though - usually once I decide on something, it's pretty much set.
Debbi is right, the self-consciousness thing does seem to get better. I'm sure everyone has something about themselves they are embarrassed about or not quite happy with - unfortunately it's hard to hide your face like you can some other problems.
If only every day was Halloween!
Lori