I just read this and my heart sank. There are no words that I can say that will ease you and your family's sadness over the loss. I can only express my deepest sympathies for you all. I will, however, relate a story. After our first miscarriage, we decided to go out of town alone for the weekend. The first moring my wife was awakened by a bird who seemed to be feverishly trying to get into our window. As time went on, when we needed it the most we noticed that there was a little bird involved. Then, one day, we found a Precious Moments figurine ornament. You guessed it, without realizing it there was a little bird on there. To this day, we find comfort in little birds because to us, it's God's way of sending us a message about the baby we lost that everything's okay and the baby is safe in Heaven. Hopefully, you'll find that same comfort.
Regards,
Brian