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saralynn143

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Re: ANA Book Club?
« Reply #1125 on: September 27, 2009, 09:58:13 am »
I would have also. Of course if possible I would have gone with them, but if I weren't able to go I would have sent them.

My husband and I have had similar discussions about what we would have done if our family was sailing on the Titanic. He would have put the kids and me into a lifeboat and stayed behind, and I would have gotten into the lifeboat with the kids. It would be the hardest thing to do because I love my husband very much and can't imagine life without him, but taking care of our children is our primary consideration.

We've also discussed whether, if we were living in Germany during WWII, whether we would have tried to do something to help the Jews who were being sent to concentration camps. I like to think I would have, and if it only involved me I think (but cannot say for sure) that I might have. BUT if I were afraid that there would be ramifications against my family, I just don't think I would have the courage to go up against the authorities. For that reason I can't look harshly on those German citizens who surely knew what was going on, but did not do anything.

I think that one of the strengths of this book and the way it was written is that it makes us feel as if we are right there experiencing the same things as the characters and makes us think about how we might react in those circumstances.
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« Reply #1126 on: September 27, 2009, 12:42:43 pm »
I thought the part about sending the kids away was heart-breaking.  I actually cried while reading about it - and I very rarely cry when reading books.

I can't even imagine having to make such a decision.  On one hand, you'd want to do everything in your power to keep them safe; on the other, how could you bear not having them with you or even knowing where they were?

Steve - very interesting story about your mom and very interesting connection btw you and Nancy Mc - I had no idea.

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« Reply #1127 on: September 27, 2009, 10:20:07 pm »
Does anyone here read any of the classics like Austen, Bronte or d***ens?

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« Reply #1128 on: September 27, 2009, 10:55:10 pm »
Book club?  What books are you on?  What's next?
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« Reply #1129 on: September 28, 2009, 07:26:25 am »
Hi, followingHim and Nani!  Glad to see you here at the ANA Book Club! 

Yes, followingHim, I read the classics (over and over), but we haven't read any here.  Suppose we could, though :)

Nani, we have just finished reading The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society.  Still having a bit of discussion about it.  We haven't chosen the next book yet...there is a list of suggestions somewhere on this thread that has been building up over the months.  Not sure which one will be next.  Someone will spearhead it at some point in the next week or so, I'm sure.  Hope you both will join us!

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« Reply #1130 on: September 28, 2009, 12:46:21 pm »
New Question: If Elizabeth had come back, do you think she and Juliet would have been friends? Or do you think that Juliet stepped into the void left by Elizabeth and the island wouldn't have been big enough for both of them? Or do you have another opinion altogether?

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« Reply #1131 on: September 28, 2009, 02:33:59 pm »
I'm not sure Juliet would even have gone to Guernsey if Elizabeth had been there.  I think she went because she was curious how Elizabeth's influence was still very much present in Guernsey.  The dynamics would have been different if Elizabeth had been physically still there.

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« Reply #1132 on: September 28, 2009, 04:27:01 pm »
You know me - rainbows & happy endings...I wanted her to come back & they all became famous friends!  :o)

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« Reply #1133 on: September 28, 2009, 09:53:15 pm »
I was very disappointed - and sad - that Elizabeth didn't come back.  I thought she and Juliet would have been great friends. 

They seemed similar in a lot of ways - lots of spunk, not doing what others expected of them, etc. 

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« Reply #1134 on: September 29, 2009, 12:34:36 am »
I agree with Clarice that Juliet might never have gone to Guernsey if Elizabeth were already there. Elizabeth and Dawsey would already be married and raising Kit. 

It would have turned out quite different if Elizabeth had made it home after Juliet was already there. They would have become friends, but also perhaps have been in competition with each other a little bit. That would have made it an edgier story. I'm not sure what the ending would have been.

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« Reply #1135 on: September 29, 2009, 05:54:42 am »
WAIT!  I totally missed out on the Elizabeth & Dawsey thing...Clarice - reference, please?

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« Reply #1136 on: September 29, 2009, 08:59:48 am »
Correct me if my memory is off, but Elizabeth & Dawsey were not an item before Elizabeth was captured. However, Dawsey had a very soft spot in his heart for her.  It is entirely possible if the war had not happened the two of them might have married or if Elizabeth had not been captured, as Steve said, she and Dawsey might have been together raising Kit.

Not until I finished reading did I realize that all of the letters were written within just over an 8-month period in 1946 ..... and yet I felt like I had lived through an entire WWII.

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« Reply #1137 on: September 30, 2009, 06:37:38 pm »
Hey, Everybody!
Joebloggs made me join Facebook last night, and I was looking through her photo albums and saw one of her standing on a cliff on Guernsey!
How about that?!
I asked her to share it with y'all.
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Re: ANA Book Club?
« Reply #1138 on: October 01, 2009, 04:25:47 pm »


There you go troops!  Me standing on a cliff on Guernsey... beautiful place - if you get a chance definitely visit - also Sark and Herm if you get a chance!

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« Reply #1139 on: October 01, 2009, 04:35:51 pm »
Oh, WOW, that picture tells much!!  ..... and Joebloggs, you are beautiful!

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