Hi Nicki,
So sorry to hear of your pain, especially knowing that you have to return to work as a nurse which we know is no easy ride in the park (maybe night shift isn't so bad).
Headaches are the ONE thing I DON"T suffer from, thank God- I got too much other stuff on my plate. You had a
whopper of a tumor, so it will just take a longer time to get back on track.
As I've said before,it is a part to full time job just taking care of ourselves after surgery.
Advice for the headaches?
? Just gotta keep trying different things until you find something that DOES help. I've heard Lyrica,(also helps with sleep), neurontin, even elavil which as you know is an antidepressant too. Excedrin gives you that punch of caffeine/aspirin/tylenol which helps many, but then you don't want to overdo the aspirin. There is also aspirin free excedrin. Maybe "pop" an excedrin at the beginning of your shift.
My acupuncturist cured a woman of her many year history of headaches. She referred to it as "face pain." Never got relief with meds. The acupuncturist did his pulse analysis and told her she is experiencing migraines, which come across as head pain. (trigeminal nerve). He was correct! Her headaches were gone in a couple of weeks with acupuncture and chinese herbs.
I'm fortunate to live near this guy who works wonders, and he is in a small city (Poulsbo) in WA. My face is slowly improving- it just takes a long time.
I would recommend acupuncture (traditional chinese type that also treats with herbs). Sounds like $$$$ is tight and you may not be able to afford it- hopefully your insurance will give you at least a couple of visits to see if it works.
Hang in there- there is so much on your plate. I feel for you- a mom/nurse/wife dealing with all this.
Let us know how things progress.
Maureen