Catflower & Lori -
Funny you guys should mention coloring your hair.
I decided to stop coloring mine a few months ago in anticipation of my BAHA, mainly because I have no idea if or when "coloring" is allowed post BAHA surgery. And, yes, those are the only two questions I am just too vain to ask my doc
When I scheduled the surgery, they had to order the device and asked me what color to order. I said brown, at least for now, but I may have to change that to gray in the next few years. It's strange, I don't really have that many gray hairs for someone my age (46 1/2), but my soon-to-be 12 year old daughter is very concerned about when I'm going to color my hair again. It seems that the gray really bothers her LOL
Ellis -
I am SO happy to read your comment about putting things in perspective. When I first mentioned BAHA and explained what it was to my parents, they were very much against it. It seems they were highly concerned that with such an "appliance" on my head I would never remarry (let's overlook the fact that I have absolutely no intention of getting married again). They were very caught up in "what will potential mates think of this". I basically told them that I felt the BAHA was right for me and that I really didn't care what others thought about it. And furthermore, if someone wouldn't marry me (or date me) because I had a BAHA, I wouldn't waste my time with that person. That pretty much stopped them in their tracks and they have never again mentioned that they thought a BAHA was a bad idea for me.
Jan