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Re: Looking for a new job...
« Reply #15 on: September 26, 2012, 08:56:19 pm »
Hi, I agree with Jane about seeking second opinions.  I had a small tumor and I still had hearing on the AN side.  I decided to have surgery while my tumor was small because I didn't want to lose my hearing if there was an option to save it.  I was given a 70% chance of retaining my hearing.  With the  middle fossa surgery using HEI surgeons,  my hearing was saved.  The tumor had grown into my facial nerve and I am thankful I hadn't waited any longer. They were able to remove most of it, leaving a very small amount in order to not damage my facial nerve.  I'm not a specialist in this area so I can't know what would be the best choice of surgery for anyone else, but I thought I'd share my story.  I am very very glad I had this particular surgery and grateful to have my hearing. 

I wish good things  for you,

karen
.7cm, left side AN , Tinnitus, Hearing preserved, Middle Fossa 8/1/12 at HEI, Drs Friedman and Schwartz, Sharing your story is extremely helpful to me.

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Re: Looking for a new job...
« Reply #16 on: September 27, 2012, 05:16:43 am »
I also agree with having second and third opinions if possible.  The first 2 Dr.s that I went to told me that because of the location of my tumor, surgery would cause total hearing loss 99% of the time.  I had lost 25% of my hearing already, even though my tumor was very small, because of where it was located (as far outward in the IAC as possible)and was told that as it grew it would continue to take my hearing.  The first 2 Dr.s didn't want to do surgery...I sent my MRI to House in LA and they gave me a 75% chance of retaining the hearing that I had.  For me it was a no-brainer...wait and watch and let it grow and take my hearing...or have a 75% chance of keeping what hearing I have.  I went with the 75% chance.  And they were successful.  I know that is not always the case, but it was worth my efforts to send them the MRI.
 In my opinion, and it is just that, my opinon, the Dr.s at House are the best!!  I mean they specialize in AN's...

BTW, I had Mid-Fossa last December and am doing great now.  I can still talk on the phone with my "bad" ear... :)...I do have tinnitus...not uncommon...and I am still recovering, but it takes time.  I guess what I am trying to say is that I am very glad I got second and third opinions and if you can, you should.

One more thing, I have noticed that I do mix words up more often than I did in the past and my wife kids me about having dyslexia, but I am not sure if it is AN related or just my getting older.  If I were a betting man, I would say it is AN related.

Good Luck!!!
3mm x 3mm right side AN. Diagnosed 10-13-11. Surgery @ HEI w/Dr. Wilkinson and Dr. Schwartz 12-07-11.

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Re: Looking for a new job...
« Reply #17 on: September 28, 2012, 12:05:53 pm »
Thank you all for the imput! It's very much appreciated. I think I will definitely send my scans to House, and see what they say. My AN is pretty much right near my cochlea, down low under the facial nerve I guess. The 2nd opinon doctor drew it out for me.

The only reason I've been willing to wait is because they told me that if I don't, not only will I lose my hearing, but probably the facial nerve as well. But, thinking that I could loose my facial nerve anyway doesn't make me happy. If I can find someone that will take it out, and maybe keep some of my hearing, that might be the best thing for me. Who knows at this point. It's still so new I guess.

Also, I went to the neurology yesterday with that website printed off that Paul sent to me. (Thank you again for that!)
She also refused to think it's connected to the AN at all. She said that it's because I get migraines, and because I've had a headache every day for over a year. I'm used to the headaches by now...they don't even both me. And I've had migraines for as long as I can remember. But, they never had any cognitive effect on me before, so why would they now? She looked at the list...for about 10 seconds, if that...and said that that list is like watching a commercial for a medication and hearing a list of all possible side effects. And that was it, she moved on.
She wants me to go on anti depressants to get rid of the headache. That's what the first neurolgist tried...they didnt' help. So, this doctor is putting me on a different one...Effexor. Which, from my understanding, is the stronger version of Cymbalta. I am extremely allergic to Cymbalta. Also, I'm not depressed. I have some anxiety, but nothing that impacts my life... I'm frustrated.
She suggested anti seizure meds...but then said that it would cause birth defects if I wanted babies..I've been trying to get pregnant for 2 years.
She suggested blood pressure meds...but my blood pressure is already too low, and it would make me pass out...
She suggested phenergan for the nausea with the migraines, which I'm allergic to too.

I left there so annoyed! About the list --- If you were put on a new medication that listed possible side effects...say it said it could cause suicidal thoughts or manic behavior...and you've NEVER been manic or suicidal before...and then all of a sudden you are...wouldn't you attribute that to the meds?! If that is the case...and there is a list of vestibular disorder symptoms, and it's slowly becoming a checklist for me...and I've never had these problems before...how is it not connected?! AHH!! I want to rip my hair out!

Sorry.. venting again! Even when I tell her that others have experienced similar symptoms with ANs...she says mine is too small. Well....according to the other doctors, mine should be too small to alter my balance and hearing this much, but the tests don't lie, and neither do I.

Ugh, I'm just going to stop here... I'm getting too angry when I type. And I'm at work - dont' want to break the keyboard with my typing!! ;-)

Thank you all again! Hope you're having a good day...or, as I call them now... a good tumor day!

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Re: Looking for a new job...
« Reply #18 on: September 28, 2012, 02:23:51 pm »
Hi Mary,
Time to look for different opinions I would say.

Might be worth hearing about my experience.
About 2 years before I was diagnosed, I could not concentrate the way I used to and I was getting tired easily.
I had the usual blood tests and nothing was found. I thought I was just getting old.
Then my hearing started declining. It seemed like everyday my hearing would be a little bit worse.
From Vestibular testing I had lost 50% of my vestibular function on my AN side.
Typing became difficult, I transposed letters jumbled words, and wrote jibberish.
I also had problems speaking, my memory wasn't right. Words that I wanted just didnt come out.
I am self employed, just as well, I probably would have sacked myself on poor performance.

All of this stuff was happenning at the same time the AN was reducing my hearing, affecting my balance, and giving me tinnitus.

I was diagnosed with an AN and treated with Cyberknife 3 weeks later.

As my AN symptoms slowly disappeared 12-24 months after treatment, so have the typing problems, speech problems. Energy levels and concentration have also improved a huge amount. My symptoms are now gone and I feel back to normal.

The small AN's can be some of the most problematic.
This happens because as the AN grows it begins to fill the Internal Auditory Canal.
As it grows, it will squash your facial balance and hearing nerve into a ribbon instead of being round, and it will squash the artery that feeds the cochlear restricting blood supply to both the nerve and cochlear itself... The tumor itself can also affect the nerve directly... Hmmm I think that makes us very good candidates for Vestibular problems!

Many a doctor has been confused by the amount of symptoms we get, the long recovery, yet there is little or no damage to the brain itself, both before and after treatment.

About 6 months ago we had a Professor Margie Sharpe attend our local support group meeting.
An expert in the field of balance disorders
http://dizzinessbalancedisorders.com.au/

I don't think there is much in the world of balance and dizziness that she does not know.

As she talked I was ticking lots of boxes with my symptoms, as were so many others in the room.

Lets face it our vestibular systems are broken, so we will get vestibular problems.
None of the symptoms you are describing would surprise her.

As for the drugs, wow I would definitely seek more opinions..

As an alternative, I found Ginger Root Extract which is a natural motion sickness remedy helped me.
Dont expect anything fantastic, but it did seem to do something at the maximum recommended dose.

I have recently seen Ashwaghanda another herb prescribed by a doctor, work very well for anxiety in a family member, and allowed them to stay off the prescription medication.

2 Years ago I thought herbs provided marginal at best, medicinal qualities, I have changed my tune, especially to see Ashwaghanda work so well for anxiety
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Sudden Partial hearing loss 5/28/10
Diagnosed 7/4/10
CK 7/27/10
2/21/11 Swelling 13x6x7mm
10/16/11 Hearing returned, balance improved. Feel totally back to normal most days
3/1/12 Sudden Hearing loss, steroids, hearing back.
9/16/13 Life is just like before my AN. ALL Good!

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Re: Looking for a new job...
« Reply #19 on: October 12, 2012, 02:18:33 pm »
Today my bosses took me aside and told me I have three weeks to find another job or I'm fired. I don't even know what to do at this point. I was told when I was taken out of my old job that they would find me something permanent here, and I have been applying to places. I really need to stay employed through the state because of the insurance, but I don't think thats really an option at this point.
I might only have insurance for another month or two...I'm actually considering trying to get someone to operate now, while I don't have to pay for it...rather than wait the who knows how many years and then maybe drown in debt... Is that crazy? To consider getting it out now, before I have to?

I am so lost right now... I've been here for 4 years, and I've been a great employee...and now this. I know I sound whiney, but it really isn't fair. They go out on a limb for other employees, who just can't cut it at the job...and yet, I have a brain tumor, and they cut me out.

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Re: Looking for a new job...
« Reply #20 on: October 12, 2012, 02:47:30 pm »
Mary ~

You're definitely getting a raw deal from your employer and have every right to be distressed over the situation.  Having the surgery now is a huge decision that only you can make but sometimes financial stresses will determine our choices and there is nothing 'crazy' about that.  You'll be in my prayers that you can find the right answer to this vexing problem confronting you.

Jim
4.5 cm AN diagnosed 5/06.  Retrosigmoid surgery 6/06.  Follow-up FSR completed 10/06.  Tumor shrinkage & necrosis noted on last MRI.  Life is good. 

Life is not the way it's supposed to be. It's the way it is.  The way we cope with it is what makes the difference.

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Re: Looking for a new job...
« Reply #21 on: October 12, 2012, 06:26:08 pm »
Any time your let go or can`t work because of ailment I would think your eligabe for Social Security Disability. I know we would rather work but thats why its there for us. May also be able to work part time up to a certain amount. Just an idea which may be helpful. Best wishes, Mickey

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Re: Looking for a new job...
« Reply #22 on: October 12, 2012, 10:18:55 pm »
Today my bosses took me aside and told me I have three weeks to find another job or I'm fired. I don't even know what to do at this point.

There's a lot more to your situation than just medical.

1 - Check out the ADA website:

http://www.ada.gov/

Study, study, study as much about your ADA rights as you are studying about ANs.

2 - Consult an attorney who specializes in ADA  and age discrimination employment cases. DO IT NOW. Otherwise you very likely will find yourself out of work shortly and in a world of hurt.

3 - As for your insurance, COBRA allows you to continue it unchanged for 18 months but you have to pay the full premium. Study your COBRA rights at:

http://www.dol.gov/dol/topic/health-plans/cobra.htm

3/15/18 12mm x 6mm x5mm
9/21/16 12mm x 7mm x 5mm
3/23/15 12mm x 5.5mm x 4mm
3/13/14 12mm x 6mm x 4mm
8/1/13 14mm x 5mm x 4mm (Expected)
1/22/13 12mm x 3mm (Gamma Knife)
10/10/12 11mm x 4mm x 5mm
4/4/12 9mm x 4mm x 3mm (Diagnosis)

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