Hi Debbie,
I can just speak for myself. I hear things now on my deaf side that I could not hear before. I hear the sheets rustling when I make the bed, I hear my heels on the floor, I hear softer sounds, hear better in a noisy environment, but best of all.....I hear someone talking to me on the deaf side. Previously, I usually did not even know that someone was talking to me on that side. You need to see if you can use the trial BAHA (preferably on a soft band) for a few days at home and going about your business. You are in LA, are you going to the House Ear Institute? Your hearing will not be perfect and will not be as good as it was before your SSD. However, you should notice the improvement. Good luck.
~Dale