Vivian
Late to the post.
Sorry the tumor has grown and the watch and wait protocol is no more.
I had a consult at the Gamma Knife Centre in February. The center is quite nice (the appointment rooms are rather nasty though!). I mightn't have appreciated the bed side manner of the radiation oncologist I met, but appreciated his advice (just keep on waiting, and do something when the hearing is gone and/or the tumor grows). I didn't get any comfort from him on 'long-term' outcomes of radiation (> 20 years) which still bothers me and leaves lingering thoughts. (Those doctors see dire cases every day - so compared to my small benign tumor, I guess it didn't cause them much concern.) I am sure I will be back for another consultation ... just hoping it will be several years away.
It will be nice you have your neurosurgeon going with you. (I went by myself - in hindsight, a bad idea.) They have a senior neurosurgeon on the team as well - it would be an interesting conversation to hear the various doctor's opinions.
Ann