Wow Denise. I'll bet that knocked you for a loop, huh?
But, it will work out. Forget about the parent council meetings. If your baby is only 5, you've got many, many years of those ahead. Missing one or two won't hurt you or your kids. And I can guarantee, all those other parents at the school are going to want to step in and help you out any way they can, so let them. You know you'd do the same for them.
And Tammy is right, you'll probably have the best Halloween costume of all! I have a feeling your boys will be jealous of it - boys just seem to like staples and things in people's heads don't they? If your kids are anything like mine, they'll be showing off your new battle scars to anyone who stands still long enough! You can still have the birthday celebration and the Halloween stuff, just let some people help you out a bit. Or postpone it! Take it from a military family - you don't have to celebrate all holidays the same day everyone else does - we've had Easter in January, Valentine's Day in April and Thanksgiving in August, so you can certainly have a birthday party any day of the year!
Now, back to that deep breath you were supposed to be taking....
Lori