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Treatment Options => Microsurgical Options => Topic started by: Donna R on June 16, 2009, 01:48:59 pm

Title: Getting closer to surgery
Post by: Donna R on June 16, 2009, 01:48:59 pm
Well, here I am six days until the 22nd...I'm very anxious, nevous, scared...but at the same time, iit will be a relief to have it over with...hopefully no more vertigo after the surgery...that has been the hardest for me. I will let you all know how things go when I am able to get back on the forum..thank you for all of the info and the good thoughts that I have gotten! You have all been so helpful in getting me through all of this!

--Donna
Title: Re: Getting closer to surgery
Post by: epodjn on June 16, 2009, 01:56:08 pm
Those days before surgery are a little nerve racking. . .but it will be ok. Enjoy your family, friends, and relax a little if you can. We will all be praying for you. I will remember your surgery date because it's also the day I go to a new neurologist, so I'll be thinking of you. Hang in there.
Title: Re: Getting closer to surgery
Post by: CHD63 on June 16, 2009, 02:45:40 pm
Donna .....

Try to keep as busy as you can ...... helps to get things done, as well as makes the time go faster ...... but at the same time concentrate on relaxing as much as you can ..... that sounds like a conflict but it really isn't.

Is there anyone who can post for you for a few days to let us know how you are doing after surgery?

My thoughts and prayers are with you!

Clarice
Title: Re: Getting closer to surgery
Post by: MissMolly on June 16, 2009, 03:10:33 pm
I am so with you, Donna.  The six days and counting thing...the hoping the vertigo will resolve after surgery...  This is tough.  I 'm hoping that I can keep busy enough to keep my mind off things so time will go quickly.  Keep in touch.  Molly
Title: Re: Getting closer to surgery
Post by: Jim Scott on June 16, 2009, 03:13:12 pm
Hi, Donna ~

The dichotomy between AN patient's pre-surgery anxiety and a sense of relief is common and quite natural, for some of the reasons you gave, including your expectation of your vertigo being resolved.   I'm pleased to learn that the forums have been a help to you.  We aim to please!  :)

Prayers and warm, positive thoughts will be with you - all day - next Monday.  Stay positive.

Jim
Title: Re: Getting closer to surgery
Post by: leapyrtwins on June 16, 2009, 07:33:23 pm
Donna -

waiting can be hard, but trying to focus on the confidence you have in your doctor(s) can help a lot.

As Jim mentioned, we're all sending positive vibes, good thoughts, and prayers your way.

You'll get through this and be a postie before you know it.

Chin up,

Jan   
Title: Re: Getting closer to surgery
Post by: stoneaxe on June 16, 2009, 07:35:34 pm
Keeping busy definitely helps...I made a LONG to do list and I'm still working on it with less than 12 hours to go. Good luck Monday.
Title: Re: Getting closer to surgery
Post by: Donna R on June 16, 2009, 08:46:22 pm
Thank you so much...yes, Clarice, my husband Pat will update everyone after surgery.

--Donna
Title: Re: Getting closer to surgery
Post by: Vivian B. on June 17, 2009, 05:07:05 am
Hi Donna,

Just wanted to wish you best of luck on your surgery and a speedy recovery.

Vivian
Title: Re: Getting closer to surgery
Post by: Mickey on June 17, 2009, 09:01:34 am
Prayers are with you for a speedy recovery! Best wishes, Mickey
Title: Re: Getting closer to surgery
Post by: alwaysthere on June 17, 2009, 09:58:33 am
Donna,
 I know how you feel right now. My surgery is June 25th. I didn't think it was bothering me, but the last few days I have been sick to my stomach. I think it is just nerves. I am trying to stay busy getting things done around the house. Today I'm baking cookies to take with us for the waiting room, nurses, etc. We leave on Monday morning since I'm having surgery a 10hr drive from home. Then do all my pre-op the day before. I am so ready for all this to be over.

Good luck and I'll be sending prayers up for you and everyone else who is having surgery.

Patty
Title: Re: Getting closer to surgery
Post by: heyct on June 17, 2009, 12:14:16 pm
Hi Donna,

I remember the feelings. Just try to relax. Do whatever you can to bring yourself into a calm state. I won't bother everyone w/all the new age stuff I've gotten into lately....hey, it worked, is working for me....I was surprised when talking to by girlfriend who does excellent "body work" ie massage. I was telling her about everything I was doing. She is NOT into newage  stuff at all. She concurred that, "Anything that can bring you into a heightened state of relaxation, whether it be prayer, massage (I wish I could afford more!), meditation...etc.. helps the body heal.

That's my two cents!
Peace,
Carolyn
Title: Re: Getting closer to surgery
Post by: doinoc on June 17, 2009, 08:23:51 pm
Prayer for you...............May the Lord bless you and keep you
                                    may His face shine upon you and be gracious to you
                                    show you His kindness and give you peace
                                    and to your surgical team also!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

                                    Can I hear an AMEN
Title: Re: Getting closer to surgery
Post by: Jeepers on June 18, 2009, 09:44:57 am
Good luck, Donna!  :)
Title: Re: Getting closer to surgery
Post by: Lilan on June 18, 2009, 06:47:25 pm
Donna, best of luck. Soon this will be a memory! It's a great time to call on everyone in your life to do what they can -- pray with you, spy on your dog walker, send cheery notes on Facebook -- every bit of it helps keep you feeling connected and whole. And of course knowing that a forum-full is pulling for you!
Title: Re: Getting closer to surgery
Post by: Rich56 on June 21, 2009, 09:52:37 am
Hi Donna,

Your in our thoughts and prayers for a sucessful surgery tomorrow,

Rich & Scarlett
Title: Re: Getting closer to surgery
Post by: leapyrtwins on June 21, 2009, 09:25:41 pm
Good luck, Donna!

Jan
Title: Re: Getting closer to surgery
Post by: sgerrard on June 21, 2009, 09:47:46 pm
Best wishes, Donna.

Steve