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Title: Update on Melissa
Post by: Melissasfriend on May 16, 2008, 07:44:43 pm
Hi I am a friend of Melissa's and she has asked me to keep you guys posted.  She had her surgery yesterday and according to her husband everything went good.  I think it took a little longer then they thought.  They had to leave a little of the tumor attached to one of her facial nerves but I guess they are going to be able to remove that in 3 months.  I don't have all the details yet.  I did speak with her for a few minutes earlier and she is having a problem with dizziness.  I have not heard from her husband so I don't have any additional updates.  I am making the drive up there tomorrow to see her so hopefully I will have some more information for you.

It is great you have each other here on this site.  I will update you tomorrow.
Title: Re: Update on Melissa
Post by: leapyrtwins on May 16, 2008, 08:46:09 pm
Jaime -

thanks for updating us on Melissa.  It's good to hear she's going well.

Tell her we are all thinking of her and hoping for a speedy recovery.

Jan
Title: Re: Update on Melissa
Post by: lacey7 on May 16, 2008, 08:56:42 pm
Thank you, Melissa's friend!!!  I was wondering how she was doing.  I'm so glad it's all over for her.
Tell her I said HI, and I can't wait until she gets better to post again.
You are a very good friend to post for her.  We thank you.
Lacey
Title: Re: Update on Melissa
Post by: sgerrard on May 16, 2008, 09:00:33 pm
Thank you for the update on Melissa. It is good to hear that it went well. Leaving a bit on the facial nerve seems to be fairly common these days - and feeling a little dizzy the next day is even more common. Give her our best when you see her.

Steve
Title: Re: Update on Melissa
Post by: leapyrtwins on May 16, 2008, 09:05:09 pm
Jaime -

forgot to say, until I read Lacey's post, that it's very nice of you to update us on Melissa.  We hate waiting to hear how someone is post op; some of us worry a lot about these things.

A huge thank you for being her scribe.  I'm sure Melissa appreciates it too. :)

Jan
Title: Re: Update on Melissa
Post by: LADavid on May 16, 2008, 09:06:32 pm
Thank you so much, Jamie.  We were all thinking about Melissa.  Please give her my/our best.  I'm glad everything worked out  Tell her -- welcome to the postie world.  And the dizziness does go away.

David
Title: Re: Update on Melissa
Post by: kimberly on May 17, 2008, 06:40:08 am
Hi Jaimie -

Thank you for the update.  Melissa is in good hands :)  Let her know I said hello and am thinking of her and am looking foward to talking to her when she is home and ready.

Kimberly
Title: Re: Update on Melissa
Post by: Jim Scott on May 17, 2008, 06:47:36 am
Hi, Jaime:

Allow me to add my thanks to you for taking the time to post an update on Melissa for us.  You truly are Melissa's Friend.  :)

AN surgery can be quite long and dizziness immediately post-op is fairly common, so it seems as if Melissa is progressing normally.  Leaving a bit of tumor on the facial nerve to avoid facial paralysis or other complications is pretty much standard with AN surgery these days.  She may have radiation treatment later, as I did, to kill the remaining AN.  It seems to have been successful in my case and is becoming popular with AN neurosurgeons because it avoids facial nerve damage but kills the tumor's DNA, destroying it once and for all. 

Please let Melissa know she is being thought of and prayed for.  We'll welcome your updates and her eventual return.  Thanks, again.

Jim
Title: Re: Update on Melissa
Post by: Mama R on May 17, 2008, 06:48:28 am
Thank you so much for the update on Daydreamer. I'm sure she is ever so gratefu, as we are. Please let her know thoughts and
prayers are with her.

Looking forward to an update...Thanks Again,  

Becky
aka:Ohio Also
Title: Re: Update on Melissa
Post by: Debbi on May 17, 2008, 09:13:31 am
Hi Jaimie-

Thanks so much for the update and please tell Melissa we are all thinking of her.  I am sending lots of special thoughts her way and hoping she has a smooth recovery.  Give her a hug for me, okay?

Debbi - two weeks on the "other side"
Title: Re: Update on Melissa
Post by: ppearl214 on May 17, 2008, 09:16:00 am
Hi Jaime,

thank you SO Much for the update! Please tell Melissa that I'm sending the infamous "healing hugglez" and congrats to her for being a "postie" (she'll know). 

Onward and upward to continued wellness for Melissa (and all).

Phyl
Title: Re: Update on Melissa
Post by: Kaybo on May 17, 2008, 04:48:48 pm
Thanks Jaime for the update...I'll be anxiously awaiting your next report after your visit!!

K
Title: Re: Update on Melissa
Post by: Melissasfriend on May 17, 2008, 07:27:06 pm
Hello everyone!  I have to say you are all great people on here and you can tell you truely care for each other  :)  I went to see Mel today and she seemed to be doing good.  She was still a little dizzy but said it was alot better than yesterday.  They did say they will probably go the radiation route in the next 3-6 mos to zap the remaining part on the nerve.  The on call doctor came in while I was there and said she seemed to be doing good.  She was still obviously tired but I think relieved it was over.  The doctor told her she may be able to go home Monday depending on the dizziness.  She said she was hearing alot of poping noise in her ear.  Her husband is taking her kids up tomorrow and I know she is really looking forward to that.  I told her you guys were all asking about her and she wanted to say thanks for all the support.

I will probably talk to her on the phone tomorrow so I will keep you posted.
Title: Re: Update on Melissa
Post by: LADavid on May 17, 2008, 08:14:53 pm
Hey Jamie

Thank you so much for the updates.  And please tell Melissa -- you're welcome for the thanks -- we've all been there.  The stuff she is going through -- dizziness and strange noises are all par for the course.  I'm glad they were cautious with the facial nerve.  That was a big concern of hers.  I wish there had been a little more caution with mine.  And I am glad she's going to get to see her kids.  I know that will really make her recovery speedy.

My best wishes for her and thank you for your scribery (a new addition to Webster's).  Seriously, thanks, you've been great.

David
Title: Re: Update on Melissa
Post by: robynabc on May 17, 2008, 09:29:08 pm
THank goodness it is over.  We will be thinking of Mellissa.

Robyn
Title: Re: Update on Melissa
Post by: Melissasfriend on May 18, 2008, 05:05:02 pm
Thanks David  :)

One more update for you... I just talked to Mel and she seems to be doing good.  She was able to eat and was up walking and moving around.  She was really happy to see her kids.  The doctor thinks she will be home Tuesday for sure.  They were going to let her leave Monday but since she has two young kids they want her to be able to recover one more day in the hospital.

I am sure she will be online Tuesday to say hi  ;)

Good luck to all of you!
Title: Re: Update on Melissa
Post by: Kaybo on May 18, 2008, 05:49:56 pm
Great news!!  Thanks again for keeping us updated!!  You are a good friend!!   ;)

K
Title: Re: Update on Melissa
Post by: sgerrard on May 18, 2008, 05:58:45 pm
This coming week looks to be a slow one, going by the AN calendar - and thank goodness, I think we are due, it has been very busy lately.

So, Melissa may well be the talk of the forum when she gets back on. Might want to warn her.  ;D

Steve
Title: Re: Update on Melissa
Post by: LADavid on May 18, 2008, 06:59:34 pm
Good one, Steve.  There are slow news days in the news business.  We have slow AN weeks on this forum.

Looking forward to seeing you back soon, Melissa.

David
Title: Re: Update on Melissa
Post by: Jim Scott on May 19, 2008, 02:42:47 pm
Jamie:

Great news!  We look forward to Melissa's return home (and to the forum).  Thanks so much for helping her.  :)

Jim
Title: Re: Update on Melissa
Post by: leapyrtwins on May 19, 2008, 02:44:15 pm
The doctor thinks she will be home Tuesday for sure.  They were going to let her leave Monday but since she has two young kids they want her to be able to recover one more day in the hospital.

Sounds like Melissa has a very wise doctor  ;)

Jan
Title: Re: Update on Melissa
Post by: calimama on May 19, 2008, 04:26:45 pm
Hi Melissa,

Congratulations on getting past this huge event. Nice that you had a friend to let us know that all went well.

Look forward to hearing from you first hand!

best wishes from Toronto, Canada
Trish
Title: Re: Update on Melissa
Post by: Mama R on May 20, 2008, 07:32:45 am
Melissa-In my thoughts and prayers. Try to take it easy.

Becky
Title: Re: Update on Melissa
Post by: MaryBKAriz on May 20, 2008, 12:29:28 pm
Hi Melissa and TERRIFIC friend,

We are cheering you on here in Arizona. I want to thank you for updating us, good friend. I hope you are indeed able to come home today. You go girl!

Mary
Title: Re: Update on Melissa
Post by: cmp on May 20, 2008, 01:11:04 pm
Thanks for the update, Melissa's friend--so glad to hear Melissa is continuing to do well, and also that her doctors are giving her a little extra healing time before she goes home to her kids. It's very smart of them to recognize that small kids can't adapt their energy level and needs to their mom's health situation the way even an elementary aged child is able to.

Looking forward to hearing from Melissa herself when she is home and up to it!
Title: Re: Update on Melissa
Post by: Tamara on May 21, 2008, 05:38:01 am
I'm so happy to hear that everything is going as expected.  Thanks for the updates.  Does Melissa have someone to help with those kids once she's home??

Tamara
Title: Re: Update on Melissa
Post by: ppearl214 on May 21, 2008, 06:22:02 am
Melissa! Sending wellness wishes to you! Looking forward to your return! :)

Phyl